Jenna DeVorePacific Therapy, LLC

Online across HI · VA · FL

EMDR for Couples: Healing Relational Wounds Together

So much relational conflict isn’t really about the present, it’s old hurts and attachment wounds getting triggered in the here and now. EMDR for couples helps each partner reprocess the experiences fueling reactivity, so you can meet each other from a calmer, more connected place.

Healing the root, not just the argument

When a present-day disagreement sets off a disproportionate reaction, it’s often an old wound being touched. EMDR for couples helps identify and reprocess those underlying experiences, so partners stop reliving the past in their present relationship.

A blend of EMDR and couples work

Jenna integrates EMDR with emotionally focused and Gottman-informed couples methods. We work with the cycle you’re caught in together while also tending to the individual histories each of you carries into it.

Affirming of every relationship

Couples of all orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures are welcome, including queer, trans, and consensually non-monogamous partnerships, with informed, judgment-free care.

Common questions

How is EMDR for couples different from regular couples therapy?
Traditional couples therapy focuses on communication and the relational cycle. EMDR for couples adds targeted reprocessing of the past wounds driving reactivity, addressing the source, not just the surface pattern.
Can we do this online?
Yes. Online couples EMDR works well for partners in Hawaiʻi, Virginia, and Florida, whether you join from the same room or, when needed, separate locations.

EMDR for Couples in your state

I’m licensed to provide this care via telehealth in three states. Visit your state’s page for details:

Begin when you’re ready

You don’t have to carry it alone.

Reaching out is the first, hardest step. When you’re ready, you can request an intake appointment and we’ll take it from there.